So I wanted to share with you some of the more questionable gifts I’ve bought for my husband, Kevin, over the years, but I was afraid that might make you dismiss this post entirely, and that would be a mistake, because there are some real gems in here. Not the sparkly kind, of course, because guys don’t usually go for that. But, you know. some solid ideas. Because the guys in your life, the husbands and dads and brothers, are notoriously impossible to shop for, and usually fall into one of the following categories:

1. The Underwhelmed: Nothing you buy impresses him. Nothing.
2. The Impatient: When he sees something he likes, he buys it. Even if it’s the week before Christmas!
3. The Unhelpful: He doesn’t want anything. Or need anything. So… you’re pretty much on your own.

I’ve done a lot of digging, and polled friends, clients, and random strangers at Target, to come up with this list of fairly-foolproof ideas. (I say fairly, because there’s always that one guy…)

(As always, click on the pictures to shop. They’re linked for your convenience.)

Accupoint Pain Reliever

Drug-free pain relief right where he needs it. $24.99

Bubba’s Fine Foods

Blazing Buffalo ‘Nana Chips: 8-Pack. $24.99

Mixcder E7 Active Noise Cancelling Bluetooth Headphones

These noise-canceling Bluetooth headphones are a must for travelers and music lovers. $59.99

Favorite Team Sweater

These vintage sweaters are a stylish way to show team spirit.$80

Moving Locomotive Kit

A fun find for the builder and train enthusiast. $77

Sleek Leather Wallet

Because his current wallet is getting grubby. $158

Musical Sleep Mask

This should help the light sleeper on your list. $34.95

Ski Glasses

These fun glasses are sloped like the, well, slopes. $58

City Skyline Lamp

Bring his favorite city into his decor. $100

Nanodry Towel

Portable and lightweight. $34,95

Grill Smoker Gift Set

For the grill-master in your life. $60

Moon Beam Sleep Aid

This ingenious device is designed to help restless sleepers. $60

Magnetic Balance Lamp

This sleek lamp turns off and on with the flick of your wrist. $70

Adventurer Multi-Tool Clip Watch

A great find for the outdoorsman in your life. $69,95

Private Blend Tobacco Vanille Eau de Parfum

A luxe scent is an instant confidence booster. $235–$320

‘Novel’ Duffel Bag