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30 Days of Outfit Ideas: How to Accessorize

January 29, 2018 By: Nada Manley5 Comments

When we were little, we were fearless. We piled on ropes and ropes of pearls and then added plastic shoes and a tiara and felt fabulous. We didn’t worry about looking a little, well, much. We didn’t second-guess our accessory choices before removing one item and muttering: “Less is more.”
Because less was not more. Not at 3. Or 5. Or 7.
We were born maximalists.
We wanted all the pretty stuff, and we wanted to wear it all at one time.
It wasn’t until we grew older that we started to think about things like too-much-ness and over-done-ness and the perils of being excessively bedazzled.

I’m still something of a maximalist. I think that restraint is boring, although I sometimes find myself envying a minimalist look, now and then. I admire the discipline of having and wearing less, the same way that I admire people who have clean desktops and uncluttered kitchens. I admire them, but I wouldn’t want to be them.

In the past, when I would get questions about accessorizing, which happened often, I would be stumped. I could answer the specific question, of course, but I couldn’t give the reason behind my answer. It was an intuitive process, not a system, the result of a little instinct, a little trial and error, and a lot of time spent looking at fashion magazines.

And then I stumbled across a system. It’s called the 16 Point Accessory System, and no one seems quite sure who developed it, although one source I found claimed it came from a 1984 book by Christian fashion expert Betty Nethery called Uniquely You. Others credit Sherry Maysonave, who developed a point system for professional style in her 1999 book, Casual Power: How to Power Up Your Nonverbal Communication & Dress Down for Success. I found the best, and most current, explanation in this post by stylist Karen Herrema of Style by Karen. I loved her updates and how they are more in line with current trends.

With minor variations and updates due to trends/preferences, the systems all add up to pretty much the same thing:

Each Item = 1 Point

These include, but are not limited to:

  • Bags
  • Glasses
  • Hat or hair accessory
  • Jewelry (each piece gets 1 point; a pair of earrings counts as 1, a stack of bracelets or rings worn together count as 1)
  • Stockings (if they are colored, patterned, etc.)
  • Striking hair of any description (vivid or unusual color, hair that has been complimented on in the last couple of weeks, etc.)
  • Every item of clothing you are wearing
  • Bright nail polish
  • Bright lipstick
  • Statement shoes (bows, bright colors, open toes, etc.)
  • Bows
  • Contrasting or statement-making belts

Need a visual? Then check out this helpful image by my friend Tabitha Dumas.

How to Get Dressed with the 16-point accessory rule tabithadumas.com image consultant

It’s just a guideline, of course, though a handy one. To test it out, I decided to find some beautifully accessorized outfits online and tally their points, to see how this concept plays out IRL (that means In Real Life, for those of you who don’t have a tween to tell you this stuff).

8 Points

This completely un-boring outfit only scores 8 points, but each of the points is so impactful the result is still stylish. I counted 1 each for the scarf detail, the belt detail, the dress, the coat, the zipper, the buttons, and the shoes (!). Since the belt and scarf details are so strong, I could probably assign them each 2 points to bring the tally up to 10.

These Are Millie Bobby Brown's Best Outfits of 2017, Hands Down via @WhoWhatWear

Source: Millie Bobby Brown/Who What Wear

11 Points

I gave this adorable, colorful look 3 points for each of the clothing items, an additional point for a third color, and an additional point for a print, 2 points for the fab necklace, 1 point for the watch, 1 for the bracelet, and 2 points for the shoes which I know she is wearing. I can’t see makeup or nail color in this shot so I didn’t count those.

How to Accessorize Like A Stylist | It's the considered extras that turn clothes into an outfit - accessories! Summer 2017 trends, cute spring outfits, statement necklace, how to layer jewelry, outfit ideas, sundress outfits, how to wear a statement necklace

Source: MappCraft

12 Points

Neutral outfit with lots of colorful accessories: statement necklace (2), rings (2), watch (1), bracelet stack (1), bag (1), clothing (2, one for each piece), nice nails (1) and shoes (2).

A neon necklace with a gray top is an awesome unexpected twist. Read more: http://www.gurl.com/2014/06/21/style-tips-on-how-to-wear-statement-necklaces-outfit-ideas/#ixzz3ZK1ebXSK

Source: Gurl

11 Points

Laid back and neutral, this style gets points for the hat (1), clothing (3 total), sunglasses (1), shoes (2), bag (1), makeup (1), nails (1), and ring (1).

Cute and casual! love the silver oxford shoes.

Source: Kathy Jankovic

12 Points

This chic look gets points for the bag (1), nails (1), bracelets (2), rings (2), shoes (2), sunglasses (1) and outfit (2).

red shoes + red cuff = power combo

Source: Brooklyn Blonde

12 Points

This ultra-girly look from Christine at Hello Fashion gets 1 point for the topknot, 1 point for the headband, 1 for the sunglasses, bracelet (1), ring (1), shoes (3, 2 because they make a statement and an additional point for the pom-poms, LOVE!), blue nails (1), dress (2, for lots of detail and a print), and bag (1).

floral dress

13 Points

Rach of Pink Peonies rocks this adorable outfit, which gets 3 points for the statement pink coat (a judgment call on my part), 2 for the shoes, 1 for the sunglasses, 2 for the oversized bag, 3 for the outfit (2 pieces, plus a stripe), and 2 for rings.

Source: Pink Peonies

17 Points

For this look from Cara Loren, I counted her statement hairstyle (1), her sunglasses (1), her bag (1), shoes (2), earrings (2, because they’re statement earrings), rings (6), bracelet (1), and outfit (3 points, 2 for the separates and an additional point for the print). She is wearing 3 rather delicate rings on each hand, so if I had counted by handful of rings, the number would have gone down to 13.

Source: Cara Loren

With a more minimalist and casual style prevailing on Pinterest right now, it was actually a challenge to find outfits that hit the 16-point mark. What do you think of this system? Are you a minimalist or a maximalist when it comes to accessories? I’d love to hear in the comments. And, now, just for fun, here are 3 accessories picks.

3 Statement Accessories

Need help getting to those 16 points? These statement-making accessories should do it!

STRIPED MID HEEL SLINGBACK SHOES, $49.90, Zara

Slide View: 1: Cascade Bib Necklace

Cascade Bib Necklace, $68, Anthropologie

Main Image - Furla Elisir Mini Crossbody Bag

Furla Elisir Mini Crossbody Bag, $428, Nordstrom

Aren’t they adorable? Happy accessorizing!

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Comments

  1. Hancockssignetrings says

    March 19, 2022 at 7:35 am

    Nice blog! I really like the article and very helpful for me. Thanks for sharing.

  2. Nada Manley says

    November 6, 2019 at 8:27 pm

    It’s a great system!! And you’re welcome! 🙂

  3. Tabitha Dumas says

    October 27, 2019 at 4:49 pm

    I love this and thanks for the shout-out! I still count up to 16 every day!

  4. Nada Manley says

    January 31, 2018 at 10:44 pm

    Thank you so much Kath!!! I love those shoes too! I’m a little obsessed with the whole look! Accessories are such a fun way of expressing ourselves, so I hope you enjoy the process!

  5. Kath Darwen says

    January 31, 2018 at 5:53 pm

    This is great! I’m a bit of a minimalist when it comes to wearing accessories – this is so helpful as I want to wear more and gives me ideas on how to do it. Thanks again Nada! OMG I just love those shoes worn by Milly Bobby Brown!!!!

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